Greetings, dude. Hope you’re ready for some real talk, because we are not about the bullshit over here.

Ever since the pick up community hit the mainstream a few years back, there has been more misinformation than information out there about what being a true PUA is.

If you think that you are going to get a few “lines” today and start getting laid consistently by tomorrow, then being a PUA is not for you. (Give up like all the other losers do and go hire a hooker. It’s easier.) You will learn what to say and what not to say, but you will also learn that getting the girl is HARDLY about what you say.

If you think that you are going to become a PUA by typing on the forums all day (speaking of PUA Forums, this is the one I use and recommend: http://www.puaforums.com/) and all night, theorizing redundantly about what this guy should or should not have done in his field report, then being a PUA is not for you. You will learn that it is immensely satisfying to do your research on the boards, get advice, and then GO OUT INTO THE FIELD and start sarging like a champ, even if you get blown out of every set.

If you think that you can just join a PUA board, sit back, and magically watch all of your problems disappear, then being a PUA is not for you. Read more out about the history of PUA here. You will learn that people who GIVE progress a hell of a lot faster than people who don’t participate or just lurk, searching for the magic answer to their dilemma without offering support to the other guys on the board, who are searching for the same help you are.

If you have read this far, congratulations. You are the kind of guy we want on this PUA forum.

Being a pick up artist is not about getting the girl. It is about becoming a better man — the girls will naturally follow. On this PUA forum, you will get the right tips from our senior members, you will hear the stories of abject failures from our n00bs, but most importantly, you will be introduced to a high value group of guys who want to better themselves, and you.

We set up our PUA forum so that people visiting can get REAL advice about what REALLY works out there (take a look at my favorite section on how to text girls) and you will get better with girls and better in all aspects of LIFE. More importantly, you will get the SUPPORT that you need from real people just like you so that YOU will have the fortitude to get the fuck out there and do the work that only YOU can do for YOURSELF.

Here is what our PUA forum gives its members, and more importantly, what you have to do to get the most out of the forum:

- Advice on outer and inner game. What’s your part? Post field reports, no matter how embarrassing. Someone has been through something 10 times worse, we promise you. Give details, because the reason that the “line” didn’t work was probably because of what you were FEELING at the time. In time, you will find what works for you and become more congruent in the field.

- WINGS TO SARGE WITH. This is incredibly important. There are too many keyboard jockeys out there talking shit and doing nothing. We want stand up guys to use the forum to find some other stand up guys to hit the field with. What’s your part? Be a fucking stand up guy. Show the fuck up to wing when you say you will. Give the other guy feedback. Don’t punk out of sets in the field. Have your bro’s back.

- Stories to inspire. I’m talking the successes and the failures. The success stories that you read on the forum will show you what you can get if you keep at it. The failures will let you know that you are not alone in what you feel and in what you experience out there. What’s your part? Give encouragement to the guys that fail and suck up like a lemon to the guys that don’t

All in all, congratulations. You have found the board that doesn’t pussyfoot around the issues – just tells it like it is. Remember – being a PUA is all about being a MAN. (Think Sam Elliott.) Keep that in mind and you will do just fine.